{"id":24671,"date":"2013-07-04T15:43:37","date_gmt":"2013-07-04T12:43:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/?p=24671"},"modified":"2013-07-04T16:14:23","modified_gmt":"2013-07-04T13:14:23","slug":"parinti-voi-sunteti-principalii-vinovati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/parinti-voi-sunteti-principalii-vinovati\/","title":{"rendered":"Parinti, voi sunteti principalii vinovati!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/Parinti-voi-sunteti-principalii-vinovati_D830\/first-school_2331828b.jpg\" data-lbwps-width=\"620\" data-lbwps-height=\"387\" data-lbwps-srcsmall=\"https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/Parinti-voi-sunteti-principalii-vinovati_D830\/first-school_2331828b.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; float: left; padding-top: 0px; padding-left: 0px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; display: inline; padding-right: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"113639752\" alt=\"113639752\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/Parinti-voi-sunteti-principalii-vinovati_D830\/first-school_2331828b_thumb.jpg\" width=\"272\" height=\"171\" align=\"left\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Ma tot uit la povestea cu BAC-ul din acest an. M-am uitat si la povestile de anul trecut cand promovabilitatea a fost de rasul curcii. Si acum vreo doi ani a fost cam tot asa.<\/p>\n<p>Dati-mi voi sa va spun ca pentru esecul copiilor vostri, voi sunteti vinovati dragi parinti.<\/p>\n<p>Ceea ce culeg ei acum la BAC este rezultatul implicarii voastre in educatia copilului.<\/p>\n<p>Si pe vremea noastra era cam tot asa. Nu aveam noi smartphoane si alte chestii d&#8217;astea, dar si noua ne placea sa pierdem vremea. Fie ca o faceam afara, batand mingea in fata blocului, fie ca o faceam in fata calculatorului, pierzandu-ne noptile pe mirc, sa stiti ca si noi pierdeam timpul si faceam orice, numai la carte nu ne statea gandul.<\/p>\n<p>Doar ca, atunci, parintii luau masuri. Ne trimiteau la meditatii (fie ca erau platite, fie ca erau gratuite dupa orele de curs, tot la scoala), ba la romana, ba la matematica, ba la alta materie&#8230; si, mai presus de toate se si interesau daca ajungem acolo. Da, ii sunau pe profesori regulat, se interesau daca progresam sau nu, le pasa.<\/p>\n<p>Si noi incercam sa-i pacalim, ma rog acum imi dau seama ca pe noi ne pacaleam, dar ei ne tineau in fraie.<\/p>\n<p>Lor nu le era indiferent daca copilul ia sau nu bacul. Parintii nostri ar fi intrat in pamant de rusine daca se intampla asa ceva. Si noi nu aveam cum sa picam bacul, pentru ca eram pregatiti. Poate nu de nota 10, dar o amarata nota de 5 tot luam, pe merit.<\/p>\n<p>Acum sunt alte tentatii fata de vremea noastra, dar nu uitati si atunci erau, iar noi nu ne deosebeam prea mult de cei din ziua de azi. Poate prin moda, prin gadgeturile pe care ni le permiteam, dar tot niste pramatii eram&#8230; sau poate deveneam daca parintii nostri nu ne-ar fi pus cu botul pe labe.<\/p>\n<p>Da dragii mei, pe langa faptul ca se interesau de situatia noastra la scoala, ne mai si bateau, atunci cand nesimtirea si ignoranta noastra nu avea limite. Asa era, ne bateau si parca de frica tot invatam. Acum insa&#8230; acum nu ne mai batem copiii pentru ca este impotriva drepturilor omului. Acum copilul poate sa-i dea in cap parintelui, pentru ca societatea permite.<\/p>\n<p>Ma rog, au fost si vor fi intotdeauna vremuri diferite, de la o generatie la alta, dar atitudinea voastra de parinti nu ar trebui sa se schimbe. Pentru voi, copiii sunt cei mai importanti. Cel putin asa ar trebui sa fie, iar daca v-a trebuit copil, pai atunci educati-l. Aveti grija de el, puneti-l cu burta pe carte. Sunt convins ca poate invata, macat atat cat sa treaca un amarat de BAC.<\/p>\n<p>Puneti-i pe copii \u00a0sa citeasca, cartea nu a omorat pe nimeni. Nu trebuie sa va citeasa intreaga biblioteca, dar macar bibliografia scolara sa o citeasca, pentru ca asta o sa-i ajute, o sa le dezvolte creierul.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-i scapati din mana, supravegheati-i, incercati sa stiti in permanenta ce face al vostru copil, pe unde umbla si mai ales in ce anturaj este. Ajutati-i sa isi gaseasca in viata un drum de care voi sa fiti mandri.<\/p>\n<p>Hai sa nu dam vina numai pe sistem, cu siguranta este praf si nu prea ai ce sa ceri de la el, dar marea vina voi o aveti. Le sunteti parinti si aveti datoria sa-i duceti pe un drum corect.<\/p>\n<p>Mai ales acum, cand vedeti ca sistemul de invatamant este cum este, voi trebuie sa fiti mai apropiati de copiii vostri, sa puneti <em>&#8220;biciul&#8221;<\/em> pe ei si sa-i indrumati pe un drum bun.<\/p>\n<p>Daca voi nu o faceti, sistemul nu o face, cine vreti sa o faca?<\/p>\n<p>De unde vreti sa invete ceva copiii vostri, de pe facebook?<\/p>\n<p align=\"right\">[sursa <a href=\"http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/sponsored\/education\/parents-guide\/9523132\/extra-home-teaching.html\">poza<\/a>]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ma tot uit la povestea cu BAC-ul din acest an. M-am uitat si la povestile de anul trecut cand promovabilitatea a fost de rasul curcii. 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