{"id":28555,"date":"2014-05-06T01:58:21","date_gmt":"2014-05-05T22:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/?p=28555"},"modified":"2014-05-06T01:58:21","modified_gmt":"2014-05-05T22:58:21","slug":"invata-sa-spui-nu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/invata-sa-spui-nu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 spui NU"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/2014\/05\/10177477_658266970912950_4445745245680897180_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-28556 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/2014\/05\/10177477_658266970912950_4445745245680897180_n-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"10177477_658266970912950_4445745245680897180_n\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/2014\/05\/10177477_658266970912950_4445745245680897180_n-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/2014\/05\/10177477_658266970912950_4445745245680897180_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/poze\/2014\/05\/10177477_658266970912950_4445745245680897180_n.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Dragilor, zilnic g\u0103sesc pe facebook tot felul de citate, unele mai interesante, altele mai pu\u021bin. Ast\u0103zi \u00eens\u0103 l-am g\u0103sit pe cel al\u0103turat \u0219i vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 spun c\u0103 mi-ar pl\u0103cea ca oamenii care m\u0103 \u00eenconjoar\u0103 s\u0103 poat\u0103 spune nu cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tiu din proprie experien\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 nu este u\u0219or s\u0103 spui nu, dar eu din fericire am trecut peste asta acum c\u00e2\u021biva ani. Mi-am propus s\u0103 mai spun \u0219i nu \u0219i timpul mi-a ar\u0103tat c\u0103 nu-i chiar a\u0219a de greu.<\/p>\n<p>Chiar dac\u0103 pare c\u0103 jigne\u0219ti pe cineva c\u00e2nd \u00eei spui &#8220;nu&#8221;, chiar dac\u0103 cel de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine are cu totul alte a\u0219tept\u0103ri, dac\u0103 &#8220;nu&#8221; este r\u0103spunsul pe care ra\u021biunea \u00ee\u021bi spune s\u0103-l dai p\u0103i atunci spune nu.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Ai s\u0103 \u00eemi dai ni\u0219te bani \u00eempumut?<\/p>\n<p>Nu.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Este un simplu exemplu. Poate c\u0103 mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 te ajut, chiar a\u0219 face-o din tot sufletul, dar nu pot, sau nu vreau \u00een momentul respectiv, sau poate c\u0103 am o chestie fizic\u0103 care m\u0103 \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 fac asta, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 stau s\u0103 te te vr\u0103jesc cu tot felul de scuze penibile mai bine un sincer nu.<\/p>\n<p>Nu conteaz\u0103 de ce &#8220;nu&#8221;, conteaz\u0103 c\u0103 eu nu pot, nu vreau, nu am chef, ceva m\u0103 re\u021bine. Un prieten adev\u0103rat o s\u0103 ia r\u0103spunsul a\u0219a cum este \u0219i nu o s\u0103-l interpreteze \u00een niciun alt sens. Un nu, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu mai suntem prieteni, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 am ceva cu tine, \u00eenseamn\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu c\u0103 nu te ajut s\u0103 mu\u021bi mobila.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt at\u00e2tea lucruri la care r\u0103spunsul este nu \u0219i totu\u0219i \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103-l facem s\u0103 par\u0103 mai pl\u0103cut. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 tot un nu este, chiar dac\u0103 \u00eel \u00eenfrumuse\u021b\u0103m c\u00e2t putem.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rerea mea.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tiu, sunt prieteni care se vor sup\u0103ra, care poate o s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eentoarc\u0103 spatele cu prima ocazie. Dar crede\u021bi-m\u0103, \u0103ia nu sunt prieteni. Un prieten \u0219tie s\u0103 accepte un\u00a0&#8220;nu&#8221; de la voi, nu trebuie s\u0103-i lua\u021bi pe ocolite. Totu\u0219i, sunt situa\u021bii de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de moarte c\u00e2nd nu este bine s\u0103 r\u0103spunde\u021bi cu un &#8220;nu&#8221; unui apropiat, s\u0103 nu o d\u0103m nici \u00een cealalt\u0103 extrem\u0103. \u00cen\u021belege\u021bi voi ce vreau s\u0103 spun.<\/p>\n<p>Deci, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 spunem un nu, atunci c\u00e2nd al\u0103 este de fapt r\u0103spunsul nostru \u0219i s\u0103 nu mai \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eendulcim situa\u021bia?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dragilor, zilnic g\u0103sesc pe facebook tot felul de citate, unele mai interesante, altele mai pu\u021bin. 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