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Probabil mul\u021bi dintre voi a\u021bi auzit treaba asta, sau poate c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre voi chiar a\u021bi folosit-o. M\u0103 refer la momentul\u00a0c\u00e2nd o prieten\u0103 (poate s\u0103 fie \u0219i prieten, tot aia este) de-a voastr\u0103 este singur\u0103 \u0219i voi a\u021bi vrea s\u0103 o cupla\u021bi cu cineva.<\/p>\n
M-am apucat s\u0103 scriu acest post de la o afirma\u021bie a unei amice de pe facebook.<\/p>\n
N-am suportat niciodat\u0103 oamenii care au \u00eencercat sa ma cupleze cu c\u00e2te vreun amic care e \u0219i el singur… \u0218i v\u0103d c\u0103 tot se continu\u0103 aceste obiceiuri. N-am nevoie…<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
\u0218i probabil amica mea are dreptate. Nu are nevoie de ajutor, se descurc\u0103 singur\u0103.<\/p>\n
Totu\u0219i eu nu despre amic\u0103 vreau s\u0103 vorbesc, pentru c\u0103 nu o cunosc a\u0219a de bine \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 pot s\u0103-mi dau cu p\u0103rerea. Ideea \u00een sine mi-a atras aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n
Am avut \u0219i eu astfel de cunoscu\u021bi, care erau singuri \u0219i mul\u021bi dintre ei reac\u021bionau la fel. C\u0103 este bine sau nu, nu \u0219tiu, ideea este c\u0103 eu consider c\u0103 nu ar trebui s\u0103 dai\u00a0cu piciorul niciunei \u0219anse care i se ive\u0219te.<\/p>\n
Practic dac\u0103 e\u0219ti singur\u0103 \u0219i te \u00eenv\u00e2r\u021bi \u00een acela\u0219i grup de prieteni de ani de zile este posibil ca tu chiar s\u0103 nu po\u021bi s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti o persoana nou\u0103, pentru c\u0103 tu tot \u00een grupul \u0103la te \u00eenv\u00e2r\u021bi \u0219i persoanele respective toate \u00ee\u021bi sunt cunoscute. \u0218tii bine totul despre ele, \u0219tii care cu care este cuplat \u0219i tu\u00a0nu ai loc\u00a0<\/em>s\u0103-\u021bi cau\u021bi jum\u0103tatea \u00een acel grup. Practic ar trebui s\u0103 ie\u0219i pu\u021bin \u00een afara lui \u0219i s\u0103 cau\u021bi, sau s\u0103 te la\u0219i c\u0103utat\u0103.<\/p>\n
Dar cum tu e\u0219ti numai cu grupul respectiv, rare \u0219anse s\u0103 mai cuno\u0219ti pe cineva nou.<\/p>\n
\u0218i atunci… atunci c\u00e2nd cineva vine “din pur\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplare” cu o persoan\u0103 nou\u0103 (ce nu face parte din grup) la vreun chef, nu trebuie s\u0103 te sperii \u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi faci g\u00e2nduri c\u0103 a fost adus\u0103 special pentru tine. Chiar dac\u0103 de multe ori a\u0219a este.<\/p>\n
Este o persoan\u0103 pe care este posibil s\u0103 o placi, sau nu. Nu v\u0103d de ce nu ai vrea s\u0103-i acorzi o \u0219ans\u0103. Poate este chiar o persoan\u0103 pe gustul t\u0103u \u0219i atunci de ce s\u0103 nu \u00eencerci. De ce s\u0103 spui din prima c\u0103 nu te intereseaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu \u0219tii pur \u0219i simplu dac\u0103 persoana este ok sau nu?<\/p>\n
\u00cen via\u021b\u0103 eu am trecut pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 astfel de aranjamente, chiar m-am implicat la un moment dat \u00een unul. Acum cei doi sunt super ferici\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi de ceva timp. \u0218i nu pentru c\u0103 nu aveau unde s\u0103 caute, pur \u0219i simplu pentru c\u0103 f\u0103ceau parte din grupuri diferite \u0219i \u00een cercul lor nu ap\u0103rea nimic nou.<\/p>\n
A fost doar o \u00eent\u00e2mplare s\u0103-i lu\u0103m cu noi la un eveniment, \u0219i s-au cunoscut singuri. Au discutat, s-au pl\u0103cut \u0219i de acolo a fost doar treaba lor. S-au mai v\u0103zut \u0219i acum, a\u0219a cum v-am zis, sunt ferici\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n
Atunci c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti singur\/\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eenchizi \u00een tine \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 acorzi \u0219anse celor care apar \u00een via\u021ba ta. Este posibil s\u0103 fie exact acea persoan\u0103 pe care o cau\u021bi… sau nu. Dar nu este bine s\u0103 refuzi o persoan\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 \u021bi-a fost prezentat\u0103 de un prieten, prieten care chiar a avut o inten\u021bie bun\u0103.<\/p>\n
Bine, nu sunt de acord cu blind date-urile,\u00a0<\/em>dar atunci c\u00e2nd printr-o “\u00eent\u00e2mplare” mergem cu ga\u0219ca undeva \u0219i mai apare o persoan\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 spui nu, eu nu mai vreau s\u0103 merg. Este o \u0219ans\u0103 poate, de ce s\u0103 o irose\u0219ti?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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