{"id":30352,"date":"2015-02-04T00:39:22","date_gmt":"2015-02-03T22:39:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/?p=30352"},"modified":"2015-02-04T08:50:19","modified_gmt":"2015-02-04T06:50:19","slug":"tata-de-patru-saptamani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/tata-de-patru-saptamani\/","title":{"rendered":"Tat\u0103 de patru s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Nici nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 \u00eencep acest articol, m-am g\u00e2ndit de c\u00e2teva zile s\u0103-l scriu \u0219i probabil dac\u0103 apucam s\u0103-l scriu atunci c\u00e2nd mi-a venit \u00een minte a\u0219 fi avut “toate cuvintele la mine” :)<\/p>\n

Acum \u00eens\u0103, dup\u0103 patru s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de t\u0103tic vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 spun c\u0103 este un fleac pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii mam\u0103.<\/p>\n

Eu sunt un tat\u0103 activ, \u00eemi place s\u0103 m\u0103 implic \u00een tot ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 pu\u0219tiul, dar crede\u021bi-m\u0103, ce fac eu, care spun c\u0103 fac tot ce pot este nimic pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ceea ce face o mam\u0103.<\/p>\n

La \u00eenceput m\u0103 trezeam \u0219i eu de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd se trezea Alex, eram al\u0103turi de Dana de c\u00e2te ori \u00eel hr\u0103nea sau \u00eel schimba, acum \u00eens\u0103 v\u0103 spun sincer c\u0103 nu-l mai aud c\u00e2nd pl\u00e2nge, nu-l mai aud c\u00e2nd se treze\u0219te s\u0103 pape, nu-l mai aud deloc noaptea.<\/p>\n

M\u0103 mai treze\u0219te Dana s\u0103 i-l dau din p\u0103tu\u021b, c\u0103 alunec\u0103 sub masa de \u00eenf\u0103\u0219at \u0219i ea nu ajunge s\u0103-l scoat\u0103, dar cam at\u00e2t. Adorm apoi instant \u0219i diminea\u021ba nici m\u0103car nu \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 m-am trezit.<\/p>\n

\u0218ti\u021bi ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 te treze\u0219ti din dou\u0103 \u00een dou\u0103 ore, sau din trei \u00een trei ore? Probabil c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu sunte\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi nu ave\u021bi de unde s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi. Nu \u0219tiam nici eu \u0219i \u00eemi imaginam c\u0103 nu este ceva a\u0219a de complicat.<\/p>\n

\u00cemi imaginam c\u0103 dac\u0103 tot m\u0103 culc eu \u00een fiecare noapte la 2-3-4 o s\u0103-mi fie u\u0219or s\u0103 m\u0103 trezesc. Ei bine, nu este a\u0219a. Acum am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 culc pe la 22 – 23 \u0219i tot sunt rupt. Dar \u0219ti\u021bi c\u00e2t de rupt, aproape c\u0103 \u00eemi cad ochii \u00een gur\u0103 de pe la ora 20. \u0218i cum v-am spus, nu m\u0103 mai trezesc noaptea.<\/p>\n

O zi cu un copil mic te obose\u0219te ceva de nedescris. Sincer s\u0103 fiu nu a\u0219 putea s\u0103 v\u0103 spun de la ce, pentru c\u0103 nu sunt lucruri pe care s\u0103 le fac \u0219i s\u0103 fie a\u0219a obositoare. Fac lucruri normale, mai o plimbare, mai o b\u0103i\u021b\u0103, mai un schimbat de scutec, mai o cump\u0103r\u0103tur\u0103, mai o or\u0103 de \u021binut copilul \u00een bra\u021be pentru c\u0103 nu are chef s\u0103 stea la el \u00een p\u0103tu\u021b, d’astea. Nimic de speriat \u0219i totu\u0219i seara cad rupt,<\/p>\n

Pe c\u00e2nd Dana, ea nu-i a\u0219a. Ea pare mult mai fresh ca mine, cu toate c\u0103 nici ea nu este. Ea este mult mai prezent\u0103 \u00een tot \u0219i \u00een primul r\u00e2nd se treze\u0219te s\u0103-l hr\u0103neasc\u0103 noaptea. \u00cel aude. \u00cel aude \u0219i este destul de dubios c\u0103-l aude, c\u0103 pe vremuri dormea \u0219i ea ca un bolovan, nimic nu o putea trezi noaptea.<\/p>\n

Acum \u00eens\u0103, cu toate c\u0103 doarme destul de profund \u00eel aude \u0219i se treze\u0219te.<\/p>\n

Cred c\u0103 are un senzor, cred c\u0103 mamele au un al 6-lea sim\u021b atunci c\u00e2nd este vorba de copilul lor. \u0218i nu neaparat Dana, c\u0103 vorbeam de ea mai sus, cred c\u0103 toate mamele au un sim\u021b \u00een plus.<\/p>\n

Pentru asta tre’ s\u0103 v\u0103 spun cu m\u00e2na pe suflet c\u0103 sunt tare m\u00e2ndru de ea \u0219i acum o apreciez mai mult \u0219i pe mama mea. M\u0103 uit altfel la colegele cu copii mici acas\u0103, \u00eencep s\u0103 le apreciez mai mult. Le apreciez pentru c\u0103 deja \u00eencep s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg unele lucruri cu toate c\u0103 sunt \u00eenc\u0103 la \u00eenceputul acestei aventuri.<\/p>\n

\u0218i noi suntem noroco\u0219i, pu\u0219tiul e cuminte, nu face nazuri, nu pl\u00e2nge, nu se treze\u0219te de multe ori noaptea, doarme chiar \u0219i 4-5 ore legate, este ok. Nici nu vreau s\u0103-mi imaginez cum este cu unul care se treze\u0219te din or\u0103 \u00een or\u0103, care nu are un somn prea lini\u0219tit. Sau unul care pl\u00e2nge non-stop. Noi suntem noroco\u0219i \u0219i cu toate astea eu sunt praf.<\/p>\n

Nu-mi imaginam c\u0103 nu o s\u0103 mai am timp de nimic, c\u0103 nu o s\u0103 mai am timpul meu, c\u0103 nu am s\u0103 mai pot s\u0103 scriu pe blog m\u0103car un articol pe zi. Ei bine… nu mai pot.<\/p>\n

Nu o spun cu niciun regret, pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi place a\u0219a cum este acum, \u00eel iubesc pe \u0103sta mic \u0219i iubesc noua mea via\u021b\u0103, dar totu\u0219i, sunt clipe \u00een care stau \u0219i m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 mai scriu \u0219i c\u00e2te ceva \u0219i nu mai pot. M\u0103 apuc de scris \u0219i \u00een secunda urm\u0103toare intervine ceva. Las totul balt\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 duc la \u0103l mic, sau la Dana s\u0103 o ajut cu ce pot.<\/p>\n

Asta este de fapt problema. C\u0103 m\u0103 apuc de multe lucruri, intervine ceva \u0219i le las a\u0219a. Apoi m\u0103 apuc de alt\u0103 chestie, ceva ce cred eu c\u0103 este mai urgent \u0219i o las \u0219i pe aia neterminat\u0103. La un moment dat se str\u00e2ng prea multe \u0219i atunci nu mai \u0219tiu de ce s\u0103 m\u0103 apuc :)<\/p>\n

Cu toate aste via\u021ba e fain\u0103, e fain s\u0103 ai un copil chiar dac\u0103 este al naibii de obositor.<\/p>\n

Dar, c\u00e2nd \u00eel iei \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i c\u00e2nd \u00eei vezi moaca cum se str\u00e2mb\u0103, cum z\u00e2mbe\u0219te… te tope\u0219ti tot \u0219i aia este tot ce conteaz\u0103. \u00ce\u021bi d\u0103 o energie… nici nu \u0219tii de unde o sco\u021bi.<\/p>\n

\u00cen rest ce s\u0103 v\u0103 mai zic, nu am s\u0103 v\u0103 sf\u0103tuiesc acum s\u0103 face\u021bi copii. Nici mie nu mi-au pl\u0103cut aceste sfaturi, fiecare face c\u00e2nd vrea, “c\u00e2nd este preg\u0103tit”, asta dac\u0103 o s\u0103 pute\u021bi zice vreodat\u0103 c\u0103 sunte\u021bi preg\u0103ti\u021bi.<\/p>\n

V-am pupat \u0219i aprecia\u021bi-le pe m\u0103mici, sunt ni\u0219te fiin\u021be care merit\u0103 tot respectul nostru.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nici nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 \u00eencep acest articol, m-am g\u00e2ndit de c\u00e2teva zile s\u0103-l scriu \u0219i probabil dac\u0103 apucam s\u0103-l scriu atunci c\u00e2nd mi-a venit \u00een minte a\u0219 fi avut “toate cuvintele la mine” :) Acum \u00eens\u0103, dup\u0103 patru s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de t\u0103tic vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 spun c\u0103 este un fleac pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":30354,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1898],"tags":[107,7097,1733,1916,5002],"yoast_head":"\nTat\u0103 de patru s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.criserb.com\/blog\/tata-de-patru-saptamani\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta 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